Even if you are afraid, be brave enough to grab any opportunity that can help you grow in any way. If it is something that can add the value in yourself, it is worth trying. There is no harm in trying. If things went well, you succeed. If it doesn't go the way you want it to to be, at least you learned. I don't want to live in the end of the day wishing for things that sound like a regret, like "i wish i grab those chances" To know if you are about to make a good choice, think--will i ever regret if i don't go for it? Of all chances that i was first afraid to take in life, what i thought now is "Thank God i took those chances! i would have regret if i didn't" Alhamdulillah, for all the good things in life, and for all the opposite that had taught me lessons in life. In any occasion, treat yourself with respect. Do not dwell yourself on something that can destroy you.